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Tuesday, July 31, 2012
Tuesday, April 10, 2012
Effects of Emotional Abuse: It Hurts When I Love
Love without compassion is possessive, controlling, and dangerous.
Published on August 26, 2008 by Steven Stosny in Anger in the Age of Entitlement
The simplest definition of emotionally abusive behavior is anything that intentionally hurts the feelings of another person. Since almost everyone in intimate relationships does that at some time or other in the heat of an argument, emotionally abusive behavior must be distinguished from an emotionally abusive relationship, which is more than the sum of emotionally abusive behaviors.
In an emotionally abusive relationship, one party systematically controls the other by:
•Undermining his or her confidence, worthiness, growth, or trust
•"Gaslighting" - making him/her feel crazy or unstable
•Manipulating him/her with fear or shame.
Here are examples:
"You shouldn't spend so much on clothes, you don't look good anyway."
"Don't complain about how bad you have it, no one else could love you."
"Working and taking courses is too much for you; you can't handle what you need to do now."
"Your friends and family just want something from you."
"I have to drink to be able to stand you."
"One of these days you'll wake up, and I'll be gone."
"You don't know the first thing about raising kids."
It's important to note that most emotional abuse is not as direct and verbal as these examples. All the above can be implied with sarcasm, irony, or mumblings and can be communicated with body language, rolling eyes, sighs, grimaces, tone of voice, disgusted looks, cold shoulders, slamming doors, banging dishes, stonewalling, cold shoulders, etc. There are a myriad of ways to be emotionally abusive.
Gender Distinctions
In more than 20 years of working with abusive relationships, I have noticed a consistent gender distinction in the kind of abuse perpetrated. An emotionally abusive man controls his partner by manipulating her fear of harm, isolation, and deprivation; he threatens or implies that he might hurt her, leave her, or keep her apart from the things she loves. An emotionally abusive woman controls her partner by manipulating his dread of failure as a provider, protector, lover, or parent: "I could have married a man who made more money, I had more orgasms with my last boyfriend, you're not a real man, and you don't know the first thing about raising kids."
This difference in vulnerability to fear and shame is why the gender symmetry present in emotionally abusive behaviors vanishes in emotionally abusive relationships. In other words, women engage in as much emotionally abusive behavior as men, but the systematic use of emotional abuse to control another person is usually the domain of men, simply because it is easier to control someone with fear than shame.
A typical defense against shame is to tune out the person provoking it. Although we never forget humiliation, it is relatively easy not to think about things that cause shame. (The root of the word, "shame" means to cover or hide. That's one reason we tend to make the same mistakes over and over, by the way.) The cliché of the numb husband ignoring the nagging or strident wife isn't far from the truth. The abuse, though inexcusable, is not as painful for him. He is more likely to describe himself as adaptively following the path of least resistance than as a victim living under the thumb of someone more powerful. In my experience, emotionally abused men do not live in fear, even though they are ill-treated and far from happy.
In contrast, fear is an alarm system whose threshold of activation is designed to adapt to a dangerous environment. In other words, the more you experience fear, the more sensitized to possible danger you become. (That's why you might be unnerved by a moving shadow after seeing a horror movie.) The usual reaction to fear is hypervigilence. Thus women notice more of what the abusive partner is doing and are more likely to have their thoughts, feelings, and behavior controlled by the abusive partner. Indeed, it is almost impossible not to think about things that make you afraid when they are in proximity - just try to ignore the sleeping saber tooth tiger in the next room.
Effects
In many ways, emotional
abuse is more psychologically harmful than physical abuse. There are a couple of
reasons for this. Even in the most violent families, the incidents tend to be
cyclical.
Early in the abuse cycle, a violent outburst is followed by a honeymoon period of remorse, attention, affection, and generosity, but not genuine compassion. (The honeymoon stage eventually ends, as the victim begins to say, "Never mind the damn flowers, just stop hitting me!") Emotional abuse, on the other hand, tends to happen every day. The effects are more harmful because they're so frequent.
The other factor that makes emotional abuse so devastating is the greater likelihood that victims will blame themselves. If someone hits you, it's easier to see that he or she is the problem, but if the abuse is subtle - saying or implying that you're ugly, a bad parent, stupid, incompetent, not worth attention, or that no one could love you - you are more likely to think it's your problem. Emotional abuse seems more personal than physical abuse, more about you as a person, more about your spirit. It makes love hurt.
If you suspect that you are in an emotionally abusive relationship, take the Walking on Eggshells quiz. If your score indicates that you are walking on eggshells, the test will lead you to information on what to do about it.
Published on August 26, 2008 by Steven Stosny in Anger in the Age of Entitlement
In an emotionally abusive relationship, one party systematically controls the other by:
•Undermining his or her confidence, worthiness, growth, or trust
•"Gaslighting" - making him/her feel crazy or unstable
•Manipulating him/her with fear or shame.
Here are examples:
"You shouldn't spend so much on clothes, you don't look good anyway."
"Don't complain about how bad you have it, no one else could love you."
"Working and taking courses is too much for you; you can't handle what you need to do now."
"Your friends and family just want something from you."
"I have to drink to be able to stand you."
"One of these days you'll wake up, and I'll be gone."
"You don't know the first thing about raising kids."
It's important to note that most emotional abuse is not as direct and verbal as these examples. All the above can be implied with sarcasm, irony, or mumblings and can be communicated with body language, rolling eyes, sighs, grimaces, tone of voice, disgusted looks, cold shoulders, slamming doors, banging dishes, stonewalling, cold shoulders, etc. There are a myriad of ways to be emotionally abusive.
Gender Distinctions
In more than 20 years of working with abusive relationships, I have noticed a consistent gender distinction in the kind of abuse perpetrated. An emotionally abusive man controls his partner by manipulating her fear of harm, isolation, and deprivation; he threatens or implies that he might hurt her, leave her, or keep her apart from the things she loves. An emotionally abusive woman controls her partner by manipulating his dread of failure as a provider, protector, lover, or parent: "I could have married a man who made more money, I had more orgasms with my last boyfriend, you're not a real man, and you don't know the first thing about raising kids."
This difference in vulnerability to fear and shame is why the gender symmetry present in emotionally abusive behaviors vanishes in emotionally abusive relationships. In other words, women engage in as much emotionally abusive behavior as men, but the systematic use of emotional abuse to control another person is usually the domain of men, simply because it is easier to control someone with fear than shame.
A typical defense against shame is to tune out the person provoking it. Although we never forget humiliation, it is relatively easy not to think about things that cause shame. (The root of the word, "shame" means to cover or hide. That's one reason we tend to make the same mistakes over and over, by the way.) The cliché of the numb husband ignoring the nagging or strident wife isn't far from the truth. The abuse, though inexcusable, is not as painful for him. He is more likely to describe himself as adaptively following the path of least resistance than as a victim living under the thumb of someone more powerful. In my experience, emotionally abused men do not live in fear, even though they are ill-treated and far from happy.
In contrast, fear is an alarm system whose threshold of activation is designed to adapt to a dangerous environment. In other words, the more you experience fear, the more sensitized to possible danger you become. (That's why you might be unnerved by a moving shadow after seeing a horror movie.) The usual reaction to fear is hypervigilence. Thus women notice more of what the abusive partner is doing and are more likely to have their thoughts, feelings, and behavior controlled by the abusive partner. Indeed, it is almost impossible not to think about things that make you afraid when they are in proximity - just try to ignore the sleeping saber tooth tiger in the next room.
Effects
Early in the abuse cycle, a violent outburst is followed by a honeymoon period of remorse, attention, affection, and generosity, but not genuine compassion. (The honeymoon stage eventually ends, as the victim begins to say, "Never mind the damn flowers, just stop hitting me!") Emotional abuse, on the other hand, tends to happen every day. The effects are more harmful because they're so frequent.
The other factor that makes emotional abuse so devastating is the greater likelihood that victims will blame themselves. If someone hits you, it's easier to see that he or she is the problem, but if the abuse is subtle - saying or implying that you're ugly, a bad parent, stupid, incompetent, not worth attention, or that no one could love you - you are more likely to think it's your problem. Emotional abuse seems more personal than physical abuse, more about you as a person, more about your spirit. It makes love hurt.
If you suspect that you are in an emotionally abusive relationship, take the Walking on Eggshells quiz. If your score indicates that you are walking on eggshells, the test will lead you to information on what to do about it.
Saturday, October 22, 2011
Borneo Bulletin Article - Mental health: Is it really all in the mind?
By Dr Ramli Hassan, Specialist & Head of Psychiatric Services (Taken from Borneo Bulletin Weekend 22nd October 2011)
World Mental Health Day is celebrated throughout the world on October 10 of every year.
For 2011, the theme chosen by the World Federation of Mental Health (WFMH) is "The Great Push:
Investing in Mental Health". This theme emphasises the importance of mental health at all levels of society
and the importance of investing resources to ensure the maintenance of optimal mental health in all the
members of a society.
The number of people suffering from mental illness in the community is large. In general, the rate of mental
illness is higher in the more developed and urbanised societies as compared with the developing and less
urbanised societies.
For example, in the United States, Europe and Japan, one in every four adults has some form of mental
illness requiring treatment. This rate is lower in the less developed societies such as Malaysia where 11 per
cent of the adult population suffer from some kind of mental illness. The prevalence rate of mental illness in
Brunei is not known as no epidemiological study has been done on the subject.
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Friday, August 05, 2011
Are u a Negative Thinker???
depression.
Negative self-talk is an accumulation of
self-limiting messages that has become a habit. Breaking this
destructive habit is
possible, though it takes repetition and
practice to learn more constructive and helpful ways of thinking.
Most negative self-talk is
false, distorted, irrational, and self-defeating. We develop a habit of
negative self-talk
to protect ourselves. We use it to keep from
trying things that may be scary or uncomfortable. "I can't do this" may
really
be a way of saying: "I don't want to face the
risk of failing at this."
But our feelings don't have to control us. We can choose not to feel angry, guilty or frustrated. But to develop this
control, we must learn to recognize negative self-talk and replace it with positive thoughts.
Talk to yourself as though you were talking to a friend, asking yourself what you could say in place of the negative
thought.
Negative thoughts often come so
automatically that we are unaware of them. We start to feel anxious,
sad or depressed,
but we do not notice the thoughts that are
causing us to feel that way. In order to counter these thoughts and feel
better,
we first need to "catch ourselves in the act"
of negative self talk.
Examine your self talk. Test the validity of your perceptions by asking yourself questions, such as:
What evidence backs up this thought?
Am I jumping to negative conclusions?
Are there any other ways that I could look at this
situation?
What is the worst thing that could happen?
How likely is it?
What is the best that can happen?
What is most likely to happen?
Is thinking this way helping me to feel good or to
achieve my goals?
Negative self-talk:
Are you experiencing any of these destructive kinds of thinking?
Types of negative thinking:
Negative thoughts are usually distorted. We have trouble seeing things as
they really are, often exaggerating our thoughts.
The following is a list of ways our thinking can be distorted:
1. Filtering: You
see and hear only the things
you have selected. Your attention is
awakened only by particular kinds of information loss, rejection,
unfairness, and
so on. You have blind spots that obscure
evidence of your worth. It’s as though you only let in the information
that matches the way you feel about yourself.
2. Polarizing: This
is often referred to as
“black and white’ thinking. This can be
particularly damaging to self-esteem, since you will see yourself
as worthless if you aren’t absolutely
perfect. Watch for self-talk that sounds like “If I mess this up,
I’m a hopeless failure.”
3. Overgeneralization: This
is a common distortion
that plagues a lot of us. It has to do with
taking one isolated fact or event and making a general rule out of it.
For example, one date with an ice skater does
not go well, so you decide that all ice skaters will find you boring.
When you hear these words in your self-talk,
listen up! These are clues to overgeneralization: never, always, all,
every,
none, everyone, nobody, etc.
4. Mind Reading: This
is when your self-talk
assumes that everyone else is exactly like
you. Mind reading is fatal to self-esteem, because you are especially
liable
to think that everyone agrees with your
negative opinions of yourself. When you mind read, you think your
perception
is right and you act as if it is right, never
stopping to check out what other people’s reality is. Say you have
a friend who frowns a lot. You leap to
conclusions without any real evidence that they are mad at you.
5. Self-blame: You blame yourself for everything,
whether it’s your fault or not. You feel responsible for things that are out of your control.
6. Personalization: This
is the “it’s
all about me” self-talk. The way this shows
up in negative self-talk and damages your self-esteem is that any
time there is mention of a problem, you
automatically assume that they are talking about you. You negatively
compare
yourself to others.
7. Control Fallacies: Control
fallacies either
put you in control of the whole universe, or
put everyone but you in charge. You struggle to control every aspect of
every situation. You hold yourself
responsible for everything that goes wrong. You either feel that you
have total
responsibility for everything, or feel that
you have no control and are a helpless victim always waiting for someone
else
to fix things.
8. Shoulds: You
have a list of ironclad rules about
how you and other people should act. People
who break the rules anger you and you feel guilty if you violate the
rules.
9. Fallacy of Change: You
expect that other people
will change to suit you if you just pressure
them enough. You need to change people because your hopes for happiness
seem to depend entirely on them.
10. Global Labeling: You
generalize one or two qualities
into a global judgment. If you catch
yourself fixing labels on everything that once and for all defines them
in a negative
light, watch yourself. You may be labeling
things as a way to avoid dealing with them in a dynamic way. Here are
some
clues: My house is a pigsty, I’m a poor money
manager, my boss is a grouch, my roommate is a slob, I’m awful at
math, etc.
Positive Self-Talk:
Write down a positive and nurturing statement that counteracts the negative self-talk. For example, change:
"I'll never get this done" to "I've been on
tight deadlines before and I usually manage to get the job done."
"I'll never survive this." to "I have come through
worse than this"
"I can't sleep thinking about this." to "This
isn't worth worrying about - I'm going to let it go"
"I can't do this." to "This is an opportunity
to learn something new."
Positive self-talk can
be motivating, build self confidence, and keep you focused on
accomplishing goals. It coaches
you to succeed despite the obstacles you
face. If you're thinking: "I don't have the energy to exercise", replace
the negative
thought with a positive and encouraging one:
"I can start slowly by going for a short walk."
Practice thinking positive thoughts every day:
I will lose weight because I am learning to
eat more nutritiously.
I am a kind person.
I have had successes in my career and I will
have more successes in my career.
I deserve to pursue happiness.
This is an opportunity to learn and grow.
I try to surround myself with supportive, positive
people.
I can accomplish this goal by taking it one
step at a time.
Record your observations in a notebook and refer to it when you find yourself experiencing negative self talk.
Learn to turn your negative self-talk to positive self-talk and watch your mood improve.
Sometimes it is easier to recognize negative thought patterns with a little help from a trusted friend or counselor. Working on changing thought patterns is part of a type of therapy called cognitive
therapy.
Taken from:
http://recoveryhope4all.com/negativethinker.html
Taken from:
http://recoveryhope4all.com/negativethinker.html
Original source from:
University of California, Berkeley (http://www.uhs.berkley.edu/facstaff/care/negativethinking.shtml)
Develop the Habit of Healthy Self -Talk! (http://healthyhabits.com/selfTalk.asp)
Taking Charge! A Guide for Teenagers: Practical Ways to Overcome Stress, Hassles and Upsetting
Emotions. By:
Dr Sarah Edelman and Louise
Rémond
http://www.dbsalliance.org/site/PageServer?pagename=empower_negativethinkingWS&printer_friendly=1
Tuesday, June 07, 2011
Schizophrenia and Suicide

Suicide Warning Signs
- Excessive sadness or moodiness: Long-lasting sadness and mood swings can be symptoms of depression, a major risk factor for suicide.
- Sudden calmness: Suddenly becoming calm after a period of depression or moodiness can be a sign that the person has made a decision to end his or her life.
- Withdrawal: Choosing to be alone and avoiding friends or social activities also are possible symptoms of depression, a leading cause of suicide. This includes the loss of interest or pleasure in activities the person previously enjoyed.
- Changes in personality and/or appearance: A person who is considering suicide might exhibit a change in attitude or behavior, such as speaking or moving with unusual speed or slowness. In addition, the person might suddenly become less concerned about his or her personal appearance.
- Dangerous or self-harmful behavior: Potentially dangerous behavior, such as reckless driving, engaging in unsafe sex, and increased use of drugs and/or alcohol might indicate that the person no longer values his or her life.
- Recent trauma or life crisis: A major life crises might trigger a suicide attempt. Crises include the death of a loved one or pet, divorce or break-up of a relationship, diagnosis of a major illness, loss of a job, or serious financial problems.
- Making preparations: Often, a person considering suicide will begin to put his or her personal business in order. This might include visiting friends and family members, giving away personal possessions, making a will, and cleaning up his or her room or home. Some people will write a note before committing suicide.
- Threatening suicide: Not everyone who is considering suicide will say so, and not everyone who threatens suicide will follow through with it. However, every threat of suicide should be taken seriously.
Who Is Most Likely to Commit Suicide?
Suicide rates are highest in teens, young adults, and the elderly. People over the age of 65 have the highest rate of suicide. Suicide risk also is higher in the following groups:- Older people who have lost a spouse through death or divorce
- People who have attempted suicide in the past
- People with a family history of suicide
- People with a friend or co-worker who committed suicide
- People with a history of physical, emotional, or sexual abuse
- People who are unmarried, unskilled, or unemployed
- People with long-term pain, or a disabling or terminal illness
- People who are prone to violent or impulsive behavior
- People who have recently been released from a psychiatric hospitalization (This often is a very frightening period of transition.)
- People in certain professions, such as police officers and health care providers who work with terminally ill patients
- People with substance abuse problems
Can Suicide Be Prevented?
In many cases, suicide can be prevented. Research suggests that the best way to prevent suicide is to know the risk factors, be alert to the signs of depression and other mental disorders, recognize the warning signs for suicide, and intervene before the person can complete the process of self-destruction.
People who receive support from caring friends and family, and who have access to mental health services are less likely to act on their suicidal impulses than are those who are isolated from sources of care and support. If someone you know is exhibiting warning signs for suicide, don't be afraid to ask if he or she is depressed or thinking about suicide. In some cases, the person just needs to know that someone cares and is looking for the chance to talk about his or her feelings. You can then encourage the person to seek professional help.
What Should I Do if Someone I Know Is Considering Suicide?
If someone you know is threatening suicide, take the threat seriously.- Do not leave the person alone. If possible, ask for help from friends or other family members.
- Ask the person to give you any weapons he or she might have. Take away or remove sharp objects or anything else that the person could use to hurt him or herself.
- Try to keep the person as calm as possible.
Original source from: WebMD [ Better information; Better Health]
http://www.webmd.com/schizophrenia/guide/recognizing-suicidal-behavior
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
Facebook Syndrome: 8 Ways to Beat Your Facebook Addiction

The answer is yes.
In this article I want to give you some simple and concrete ways to beat your time wasting internet addiction.
Facebook Syndrome: How to tell if you are an internet addict
Before we start you need to find out if you are an addict. Once you have admitted to yourself that you are addicted to your favorite website we can go about giving you some solutions for that problem. Here are some surefire signs that you are addicted:
1. You are late for meetings because you are on Facebook
If you ever late for a meeting or an appointment because you were checking your updates on Facebook or watching a related video on Youtube then you know you are addicted. This is classic addict behavior. It is time to get help.
If you ever late for a meeting or an appointment because you were checking your updates on Facebook or watching a related video on Youtube then you know you are addicted. This is classic addict behavior. It is time to get help.
2. You think about it when you are offline
I have several friends who struggle to get to sleep because they are thinking about the latest game or wondering how their website statistics are looking. If you do this then it could be a sign that you are heading towards a problem.
I have several friends who struggle to get to sleep because they are thinking about the latest game or wondering how their website statistics are looking. If you do this then it could be a sign that you are heading towards a problem.
3. Your friends and family comment on your excessive internet use
When other people around you start to notice that you have a problem it is generally a pretty accurate indicator that you are losing it. If your mates, coworkers or family members have made comments about how much you use the net then you need to read the rest of this post.
When other people around you start to notice that you have a problem it is generally a pretty accurate indicator that you are losing it. If your mates, coworkers or family members have made comments about how much you use the net then you need to read the rest of this post.
4. You check your accounts from your Blackberry
A Blackberry is designed as a business tool. It is supposed to allow you to check your important emails and work materials without having to be in the office. It is not for checking Facebook or Myspace updates while you are having dinner with me. That is just not on. If you use your Blackberry for monitoring your social media accounts then you need help.
A Blackberry is designed as a business tool. It is supposed to allow you to check your important emails and work materials without having to be in the office. It is not for checking Facebook or Myspace updates while you are having dinner with me. That is just not on. If you use your Blackberry for monitoring your social media accounts then you need help.
5. You get stressed when a Facebook “friend” doesn’t add you
Have you ever noticed yourself getting stressed over something that has happened on Facebook or Myspace? Do you ever feel like your online life is more real than your offline life? If you have been stressed about what rapper you turned out as or what magic egg someone sent you then it is time to open your eyes.
Have you ever noticed yourself getting stressed over something that has happened on Facebook or Myspace? Do you ever feel like your online life is more real than your offline life? If you have been stressed about what rapper you turned out as or what magic egg someone sent you then it is time to open your eyes.
Thursday, April 21, 2011
The Rise of Psychiatric Diagnoses in Younger Kids
Adults tend to look back on childhood as a carefree time of playing with friends, going to school, and being taken care of. Compared with the concerns that accompany adulthood, being a kid is a piece of cake, right?
So it's shocking to learn that a recent study found that the rate of antipsychotic medications given to kids 2 to 5 years old doubled between 1999 and 2007. Antipsychotic drugs typically are used to treat schizophrenia, psychosis, bipolar disorder, and other severe mental disorders, yet in this study also were given to kids diagnosed with pervasive developmental disorders (such as autism), attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), and disruptive behavior disorder.
While the number of younger kids affected still is very small, the growing trend alarms mental health experts. The study's authors, for instance, also report that fewer than half of the children in their study had received any mental health services, such as a mental health assessment or treatment from a psychotherapist or psychiatrist.
What This Means to You
About 1 in 5 children in the United States has an emotional or behavioral condition, according to the National Academy of Sciences (NAS). But these often are problems like anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), and depression, which can respond well to early treatment with gentle, kid-friendly techniques like talk therapy.
Early diagnosis and treatment are key. Parents who worry that their child might be suffering from a mental health condition should first speak with their pediatrician or primary care provider, who can assess the child and then refer parents to a mental health specialist, if needed.
A child should receive a full mental health assessment from a specialist, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist, before being put on any psychiatric medication, especially one as strong as an antipsychotic. In addition to taking a thorough medical history, the specialist will ask about the family situation and school environment, and if there is a family history of psychiatric problems.
If other options, such as talk therapy and less powerful medications, have been unsuccessful in treating a severe mental disorder, only then should mental health professionals turn to stronger pharmaceutical treatments.
Reviewed by: D'Arcy Lyness, PhD
Date reviewed: December 2010
Date reviewed: December 2010
Taken from:
KidsHealth at
Saturday, April 02, 2011
2 April 2011: Hari Autism Sedunia
Hari ini merupakan hari mewujudkan kesedaraan mengenai autism sedunia.
Autism adalah istilah yang digunakan untuk mengtakrifkan sekumpulan individu yang mempunyai interaksi sosial yang berbeza daripada kebanyakkan individu lain. Adalah dipercayai autism mempunyai spektrum atau kepelbagaian yang luas, iaitu setiap individu yang ditakrifkan sebagai mempunyai autism mempunyai tahap yang berbeza dari segi mereka berlainan dari masyarakat umum.
Autism disebabkan kelainan pada perkembangan otak orang yang mempunyai autism. Ia juga mempengaruhi cara otak mereka bertindak.
Lebih kurang 1 dalam 100 orang di seluruh dunia mempunyai autism.
Kebolehan intellektual mereka adalah berbeza-beza, dari yang mempunyai kebolehan yang tersangat rendah, hingga kepada yang dapat melanjutkan pelajaran hingga ke tahap tinggi, berkahwin dan berkerja. Lebih kurang 10% dari mereka juga mempunyai kebolehan istimewa seperti bermain muzik ataupun matematik.
Orang-orang yang mepunyai autism, samada kanak-kanak ataupun yang sudah dewasa mempunyai masalah khasnya di dalam 3 segi, iaitu:
1. Berkommunikasi
Ada kemungkinan mereka kurang fasih bercakap, didapati lambat belajar bercakap, ataupun bercakap dengan alunan yang berbeza dari orang lain.
2. Berinteraksi secara sosial bersama orang lain
Ini termasuk kurang bertentang mata dengan orang lain semasa bercakap, tidak mengendahkan orang lain, seolahnya tidak memahami kebiasaan sosial, contohnya terlalu mesra dengan orang tidak dikenali. Mereka juga mungkin tidak dapat membaca perasaan orang lain dengan tepat.
3. Tingkah laku
Tingkah laku mereka mungkin terlalu memberatkan rutin seharian, contohnya makan pada waktu tertentu, tidur pada waktu tertentu, keluar bersiar pada waktu tertentu, dan jika rutin tidak ditepati menyebabkan mereka sangat tertekan. Mereka sukar menerima perubahan apa-apa pada rutin seharian.
Minat mereka mungkin tertumpu kepada satu perkara seperti elektronik, ataupun mengumpul objek yang biasanya tidak diminati oleh individu lain.
Mereka mungkin terlalu sensitif kepada bunyi-bunyian, ataupun kepada sentuhan. Sesetengah dari mereka suka menyentuh atau membelai objek-objek yang mempunyai rasa yang tertentu seperti bulu-buluan atau pasir.
Mungkin juga mereka berulang-ulang menggerakan anggota badan tanpa sebab.
Apakah sebab-sebab austism terjadi?
Sebab-sebab orang mengalami autism belum diketahui, tetapi ianya ada faktor keturunan dan juga faktor cara pembesaran.
Apakah yang dapat dilakukan?
Autism tidak dapat disembuhkan sepenuhnya.
Cara-cara untuk menolong orang yang mempunyai autism dan keluarga mereka ialah:
1. Memberikan kesedaran dan pengisian tentang autism
2. Memberi sokongan kepada mereka dan ahli keluarga mereka.
3. Mengawal masalah tingkah laku.
4. Mendidik mereka dari segi interaksi sosial, dan dari segi emosi.
5. Kadangkala ubat dapat menolong juga.
Tindakan yang diambil pada peringkat awal adalah lebih baik dan lebih berkesan. Pelbagai pakar kesihatan akan terlibat, seperti speech therapist (untuk menolong perkembangan dari segi kommunikasi), ahli psikologi, occupational therapist dan juga pakar kesihatan kanak-kanak ataupun pakar psikiatri.
Di Negara Brunei Darussalam, autism boleh dikenalpasti di Child Development Centre di Kiarong, selepas mendapatkan surat dari doktor klinik kesihatan ataupun pakar kesihatan yang lain.
Dua pusat untuk menolong mereka yang mempunyai autism di Brunei adalah Smarter dan Learning Ladders. Bagi mereka yang mempunyai masalah tingkah laku yang susah dikawal, ataupun jika mereka atau ahli keluarga mereka mempunyai tekanan yang terlalu banyak, pakar psikiatri di Jabatan Psikiatri di Hospital RIPAS bersedia juga untuk menawarkan bantuan.
(Artikel ini dipetik, diterjemah dan diubahsuai dari: http://www.rcpsych.ac.uk/mentalhealthinfo/mentalhealthandgrowingup/autismandaspergers.aspx)
Autism adalah istilah yang digunakan untuk mengtakrifkan sekumpulan individu yang mempunyai interaksi sosial yang berbeza daripada kebanyakkan individu lain. Adalah dipercayai autism mempunyai spektrum atau kepelbagaian yang luas, iaitu setiap individu yang ditakrifkan sebagai mempunyai autism mempunyai tahap yang berbeza dari segi mereka berlainan dari masyarakat umum.
Autism disebabkan kelainan pada perkembangan otak orang yang mempunyai autism. Ia juga mempengaruhi cara otak mereka bertindak.
Lebih kurang 1 dalam 100 orang di seluruh dunia mempunyai autism.
Kebolehan intellektual mereka adalah berbeza-beza, dari yang mempunyai kebolehan yang tersangat rendah, hingga kepada yang dapat melanjutkan pelajaran hingga ke tahap tinggi, berkahwin dan berkerja. Lebih kurang 10% dari mereka juga mempunyai kebolehan istimewa seperti bermain muzik ataupun matematik.
Orang-orang yang mepunyai autism, samada kanak-kanak ataupun yang sudah dewasa mempunyai masalah khasnya di dalam 3 segi, iaitu:
1. Berkommunikasi
Ada kemungkinan mereka kurang fasih bercakap, didapati lambat belajar bercakap, ataupun bercakap dengan alunan yang berbeza dari orang lain.
2. Berinteraksi secara sosial bersama orang lain
Ini termasuk kurang bertentang mata dengan orang lain semasa bercakap, tidak mengendahkan orang lain, seolahnya tidak memahami kebiasaan sosial, contohnya terlalu mesra dengan orang tidak dikenali. Mereka juga mungkin tidak dapat membaca perasaan orang lain dengan tepat.
3. Tingkah laku
Tingkah laku mereka mungkin terlalu memberatkan rutin seharian, contohnya makan pada waktu tertentu, tidur pada waktu tertentu, keluar bersiar pada waktu tertentu, dan jika rutin tidak ditepati menyebabkan mereka sangat tertekan. Mereka sukar menerima perubahan apa-apa pada rutin seharian.
Minat mereka mungkin tertumpu kepada satu perkara seperti elektronik, ataupun mengumpul objek yang biasanya tidak diminati oleh individu lain.
Mereka mungkin terlalu sensitif kepada bunyi-bunyian, ataupun kepada sentuhan. Sesetengah dari mereka suka menyentuh atau membelai objek-objek yang mempunyai rasa yang tertentu seperti bulu-buluan atau pasir.
Mungkin juga mereka berulang-ulang menggerakan anggota badan tanpa sebab.
Apakah sebab-sebab austism terjadi?
Sebab-sebab orang mengalami autism belum diketahui, tetapi ianya ada faktor keturunan dan juga faktor cara pembesaran.
Apakah yang dapat dilakukan?
Autism tidak dapat disembuhkan sepenuhnya.
Cara-cara untuk menolong orang yang mempunyai autism dan keluarga mereka ialah:
1. Memberikan kesedaran dan pengisian tentang autism
2. Memberi sokongan kepada mereka dan ahli keluarga mereka.
3. Mengawal masalah tingkah laku.
4. Mendidik mereka dari segi interaksi sosial, dan dari segi emosi.
5. Kadangkala ubat dapat menolong juga.
Tindakan yang diambil pada peringkat awal adalah lebih baik dan lebih berkesan. Pelbagai pakar kesihatan akan terlibat, seperti speech therapist (untuk menolong perkembangan dari segi kommunikasi), ahli psikologi, occupational therapist dan juga pakar kesihatan kanak-kanak ataupun pakar psikiatri.
Di Negara Brunei Darussalam, autism boleh dikenalpasti di Child Development Centre di Kiarong, selepas mendapatkan surat dari doktor klinik kesihatan ataupun pakar kesihatan yang lain.
Dua pusat untuk menolong mereka yang mempunyai autism di Brunei adalah Smarter dan Learning Ladders. Bagi mereka yang mempunyai masalah tingkah laku yang susah dikawal, ataupun jika mereka atau ahli keluarga mereka mempunyai tekanan yang terlalu banyak, pakar psikiatri di Jabatan Psikiatri di Hospital RIPAS bersedia juga untuk menawarkan bantuan.
(Artikel ini dipetik, diterjemah dan diubahsuai dari: http://www.rcpsych.ac.uk/mentalhealthinfo/mentalhealthandgrowingup/autismandaspergers.aspx)
Friday, February 11, 2011
Hari Kanser (Barah) Sedunia 2011: Kesan Kanser Ke atas Kesejahteraan Jiwa
Hari Jumaat lepas, iaitu 4hb Februari 2011, merupakan Hari Kanser Sedunia - satu hari yang dipilih oleh Badan Kesihatan Sedunia (World Health Organization atau WHO) untuk mewujukan kesedaran masyarakat di seluruh dunia mengenai penyakit kanser. Tujuan menyambut hari tersebut juga adalah untuk mendorong usaha untuk mencegah, mengesan, dan merawat penyakit ini.
Di Negara Brunei Darussalam, pelbagai acara diadakan untuk menyambut Hari Kanser Sedunia, termasuk Forum yang diadakan pada 9hb Februari 2011 dan Walkathon di Jerudong Park pada hari Ahad 13hb Februari 2011.
Sungguhpun pada hari ini kebanyakan jenis penyakit kanser dapat dirawat (terutamanya jika dikesan dan dirawat pada tahap awal), ianya masih merupakan sesuatu yang cukup traumatik apabila diberi berita yang diri atau orang tersayang mempunyai penyakit kanser. Bagi kebanyakkan orang, penyakit kanser masih mempunyai sinonim dengan kematian. Cuba fikirkan, apakah terbayang diminda awda apabila membayangkan seseorang yang mempunyai penyakit kanser? Seorang yang kurus kering, kepala yang tidak lagi ditumbuhi rambut, badan yang lemah tidak bermaya, dan dekat kepada ajal.

Sungguhpun pada hari ini kebanyakan jenis penyakit kanser dapat dirawat (terutamanya jika dikesan dan dirawat pada tahap awal), ianya masih merupakan sesuatu yang cukup traumatik apabila diberi berita yang diri atau orang tersayang mempunyai penyakit kanser. Bagi kebanyakkan orang, penyakit kanser masih mempunyai sinonim dengan kematian. Cuba fikirkan, apakah terbayang diminda awda apabila membayangkan seseorang yang mempunyai penyakit kanser? Seorang yang kurus kering, kepala yang tidak lagi ditumbuhi rambut, badan yang lemah tidak bermaya, dan dekat kepada ajal.
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